I’m gonna agree with everything you wrote even though I stopped watching movies and tv regularly in 2005 for the most part in favor of the internet. I saw ANH or TESB SE first while they were in theaters. I was just old enough to see them on my own. I got the VHS remastered set and waited for a I-VI set on DVD till 2006/2007 that never came. I never got the pogs. I hope to watch the new movies someday.
I didn't start watching Star Wars until 1997 when the Special Editions were released. I even used to collect the Taco Bell pogs and recorded that video above that I completely lost. Much thanks to those two YouTubers for uploading that Sci-Fi Channel feature for the Special Editions back in 1997.
From 1997-1998, Return Of The Jedi was my favorite.
From 1999-2004, The Empire Strikes Back was my favorite.
From 2005-2016, Revenge Of The Sith was my favorite.
In December 2015, I actually ranked The Force Awakens as my #3 favorite. Not anymore. Then again, I really liked The Phantom Menace, Attack Of The Clones, and The Last Jedi the first couple times I saw them. Feelings change over time.
Currently, it's back to the first SW film I ever saw.. The Empire Strikes Back. Has all my favorite characters in one film. Revenge Of The Sith didn't have Han Solo. I also started to appreciate more of ROTJ than I do for ANH. There was more emotional scenes from ROTJ even with its flaws than ANH.
Current Rankings
V - The Empire Strikes Back
III - Revenge Of The Sith
VI - Return Of The Jedi
IV - A New Hope
Rogue One
VII - The Force Awakens
I - The Phantom Menace
VIII - The Last Jedi
II - Attack Of The Clones
No new characters from the Disney Star Wars would rank in my Top 10 except for droids like BB-8 and K-2SO. Disney is just killing off old favorites.
Top 4: Vader, Yoda, Han, Obi-Wan, always...
OT > > PT > ST
In The Last Jedi, "that's not the Luke we were looking for". This one is...