iOS the notifications appear on the lock screen. With details. I don't have to unlock my phone or iPad to follow a game
Please explain, it works flawlessly and has a good UI on my S3.
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Use a different launcher? Download a new ROM? You don't have to use Touchwiz. The S3 is not ugly, nor is android, what you mean to say is Samsung's Touchwiz is ugly. At that point I will have to agree with you as I have been running AOSP roms since I got my S3.
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Your first point is invalid as one extra tap is not a huge deal. I could also argue android has music/movies/apps/books all in one app while they are separate entities in iOS which creates more of a hassle. To address your second point it seems to me like you have been living under a rock. There are tons and tons of huge community and followings for android, android has a single site that is multitudes bigger than any of the apple communities; XDA has nearly 5 million users.
I will list some others below since googling is too hard for you:
http://www.xda-developers.com/
http://www.droid-life.com/
http://androidforums.com/
http://www.androidcentral.com/
http://www.androidauthority.com/
...there's literally tons of them.