I love my job, but I'm dying for a vacation. My job is very mentally taxing (engineer). We always have tons of work to do which is better than the alternative, but it can be pretty stressful.
That said we only get 10 days of vacation (which I suppose is standard) and 6 company holidays. No floating holidays or personal holidays. Just the 10 and the 6. We also don't get black Friday nor even Christmas Eve off.
I'm also an Engineer and while I've not moved around much, I don't believe that 10 days is "Standard", unless they're simply referring to how much a starting employee gets...or you're working for a really small firm.
In my present job (been there 20+ years now), I started with 10 days off (2 weeks), plus the eleven (11) US Federal Holidays but now get 25 days off (5 weeks), plus the eleven (11) US Federal Holidays.
Can't roll any vacation either, use it or lose it, and lots of people have lost it thinking they'd be able to take it at the end of the year but having too many deadlines, so even that's a gamble.
Employees losing earned vacation time is a Management/Leadership Failure. So too is to not have any 'rollover' banking provisions.
At my last job I had over four weeks of vacation in addition to about double the holidays. Seemed like I had a week off or a few days off every other month or so, which was great.
Which means you already suspect that the "its standard" claim is probably BS. Ask around the older engineers there to find out if they're still just getting 10 days/year after X years on the job. In my case, there was a very defined policy which scheduled the vacation benefit bumps at 3 and 15 years.
I don't know what the point of this post is...
The easy answer would be to find another job with more time off, but there are a lot of other great things about the job, and I don't know that I'd get much more competitive a package elsewhere...
I understand: you're collecting data and considering 'design alternatives' ;-)
Do the local research for how much your coworkers are getting (even if it is to just note who goes on vacations & for how long).
When you get to having a reasonably good relationship with your boss for pay/compensation discussions, what you really want to do is to discuss your concerns with him as it relates to your compensation. In your case, it sounds like the message that you want to send is that for your next raise, you want him to know that you want a different mix of pay-benefits, so the question is if they're open to "compensation in forms other than pay".
-hh