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I hate that I baby my machine
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Let a baby play with it.
Yes. I used to be like this, probably worse than you. If any of my devices took even the most minor bump, I would worry for days that there was damage. I would remove the case over and over to make sure there was not hidden damage I wasn't aware of, I would wipe things down under really bright lights (and invariably find more scratches), I would inspect incessantly for imperfections, etc. I did this so much with one of my iPhones that the actual act of the case going on and off so much actually scratched the sides of the phone and did real cosmetic damage. Just from me worrying about something that wasn't even there.
In all seriousness, the way I stopped this was therapy and medication. It was anxiety. When I got the anxiety under control, I stopped worrying about stuff like this. OP: I'm not saying this is what your problem is, but I'm willing to bet it's based in some kind of anxiety.
So you baby your machine. So what? It’s not a problem. Hence, there’s nothing there you could do without. It is only your rejection of yourself babying your machine that is making babying your machine appear as something you could do without.
The Mac is a tool not an investment. Treat it normally and stop obsessing over the mundane.
I recently realized how easy it is to get the keycaps off the newer Macs.
I bought a refurb M1 MBA to use as a travel computer so I don't have to bring my M1 Max MBP with me all the time, but my MBA came with QWERTZ layout.
First I just switched the Z and Y keys, then I bought an entire set of US keys and replaced about 20 keys so they match the US layout I use. There are a few odd things - I'm still not used to the shorter left shift key and taller/narrower return key - but overall it works great.
I bought a few extra sets of keycaps so I can just replace them whenever my current keycaps get too shiny/worn.
Deliberately scratch it up all over with a key or screwdriver. Not the parts that matter, like the screen and keyboard, but only the shell. Once you cross the line you will stop caring.
If you can't get yourself to do it, hand it over to a friend and let him do it.
If you can't get yourself to do that, start with putting stickers all over the machine -- not lined up but at random positions and angles -- and acclimate to an imperfect appearance and see how it goes.
I like to baby my machines as well. I keep my current MacBook Air in the leather sleeve whenever I am not using it and that seems to help a lot with me leaving it in places, especially since I have a cat that loves to sit on it.
I am not careless like throwing my MBP 16 or MBA around, but I use them every where, no babying the devices I bought to use. It gets maximum use under high load almost every day. Yes I have an AC + for peace of mind. I travel a lot, so I can’t be worried about laptop on the move, knowing I am covered with AC+.
I had a friend who would do the same with the car. It bothered him to the point of being super anxious.
Had the same damage, but after my bag was dropped with the machine inside.
Wasn’t happy either, but am living guilt free with it since then.
Since when the hell is taking care of your expensive devices "babying?"
Do you call treating other things with care and common sense "babying" too? Is driving defensively so your car doesn't get dented "babying?"
Do you call treating other things with care and common sense "babying" too? Is driving defensively so your car doesn't get dented "babying?"
You will do when youve purchase something expensive, but you may need to be alittle looser with it to enjoy it.
It’s not about taking care, it’s being obsessive to the point you can’t enjoy or use with out worrying. Hard to understand for those who don’t have compulsive obsessiveness.
I use to be this way with Early 2015 Retina 13 inch. Back then I wasn’t getting a decent income, but now, if my 2020 M1 MBP were to break for some reason, I would be heartbroken, but it wouldn’t be out of reach to run down to the Apple (literally) and buy a new one.
Why not get a shell?
I've had numerous laptops, big and small. They always get a case and my daily driver typically gets a shell.
Interestingly, for my M2 MBA, I keep it without a shell, but in a standard laptop case.
I've had numerous laptops, big and small. They always get a case and my daily driver typically gets a shell.
Interestingly, for my M2 MBA, I keep it without a shell, but in a standard laptop case.
I have an incase hard shell for my 16" MPB because of the size and weight and being so slippy. I also have the 'cats' issue. My air 13" is put away in a Tomtoc sleeve when not in use. Finding a balance of taking care without obsessing can be tricky.
It's from 10 years ago. Hate to break it to you, but you're probably not getting anywhere near $700 for it.I paid like $700 so I need to get my money out of itthe older retinas are still very good machines, and I say that after adding an M1 MBA to the fleet.
A brand new M1 Air that will roast it in every performance metric can be bought on sale for like
edit: M1 Airs are even cheaper than I thought
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It’s still worth a lot as a daily driver!
And I thought I am not normal... I am so careful with my Macbook Pro that I barley use it to not scratch it or damage it... in the end its most of the time in a case and looses value but somehow I am not able to care less about my expensive sruff...
My wife is trying to tell me to enjoy my apple toys but hard to change
but somehow I am not able to care less about my expensive sruff...My wife is trying to tell me to enjoy my apple toys but hard to change