right.. well.. i dont know about you, but i dont particularly want to break up with my women to feel these emotions haha!!
i would hate for you to be a woman! imagine how many guys would commit suicide because of your attitude ha!
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I Regret Breaking Up with Her!
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right.. well.. i dont know about you, but i dont particularly want to break up with my women to feel these emotions haha!!
i would hate for you to be a woman! imagine how many guys would commit suicide because of your attitude ha!
Why do I get the feeling your relationships are just intermissions for a larger stalker obsession?
I do not want this toxic person back in my life. (at times I feel that I do) But logic tells me otherwise. It just wont work we both know this... I just want to figure out some way to stop thinking about her and move on with my life. I have a really hard time letting go. 
I just want to figure out some way to stop thinking about her and move on with my life. I have a really hard time letting go.
Go get laid. It has remarkable powers to forget.
I just re-read this thread, and man you guys were so right. Everyone of you! Long story short... We did get back together in March, lasted about 3-4 months, and wouldn't you know it. Nothing had changed. All the same BS was still there. She is still very arrogant, rude, mean, Hateful, angry, insensitive, controlling, Heartless, still no friends... The list goes on and on. But the sex was great.
I kicked her out in July, She tried to get back with me for about a month or so, I kept pushing her away, now shes with someone else, and I'm freaking out again. And I want her back. lol. I may be losing my mind. WTF? Is there any hope for me at all? Why do I give her so much power over me? Why cant I forget about her and just move on! Dammit!
Ahhh these are the thoughts that make a perfect stalker.
Therapy: Useful in some situations.
Time is a healer. it doesn't make you forget.
Take a look at that person, remember the reasons why you loved her then take a look at the person she's become. You should see that she's no longer the person you know and loved. So that would mean your longing for someone that no longer exists and it's time to move on fully and focus on yourself.
You can blame her for the way she is (Arrogant, no friends etc), the guys she's with or the way she is to you but you have to look at yourself and realise that you've attracted that person into your life...you really want to be with someone like that?
Take a look at that person, remember the reasons why you loved her then take a look at the person she's become. You should see that she's no longer the person you know and loved. So that would mean your longing for someone that no longer exists and it's time to move on fully and focus on yourself.
You can blame her for the way she is (Arrogant, no friends etc), the guys she's with or the way she is to you but you have to look at yourself and realise that you've attracted that person into your life...you really want to be with someone like that?
I speak from experience. It wasn't fun.
But my heart did have a nice color to it!
In my post above, I mentioned some things you could consider.I just want to figure out some way to stop thinking about her and move on with my life. I have a really hard time letting go.
Time will help.
In the interim, try to do something the completely occupies your mind. Something that takes complete concentration to accomplish.
Go get laid. It has remarkable powers to forget.
No kidding. You just miss the sex, not the girl.
Sounds to me like you mistook sex for love. Should have just did the boom-boom till you bled and realized the relationship was nothing more. Use it for what it's worth while looking around for another more compatible partner. It's amazing how many women you can find while having a girlfriend than when you don't.
Stop stalking.
A thousand bucks and a week in Amsterdam will fix you up.
You sound just like a buddy of mine.Go get laid. It has remarkable powers to forget.
And it works.
I just cant do that. I tried it. It doesn't work for me to just go out and have sex with some random chick...
A thousand bucks and a week in Amsterdam will fix you up.
I'm remembering Cooper from Eurotrip. Don't go there.
I do not want this toxic person back in my life. (at times I feel that I do) But logic tells me otherwise. It just wont work we both know this... I just want to figure out some way to stop thinking about her and move on with my life. I have a really hard time letting go.
You need some strange.
That is the only advice I'm willing to give you over the internet.
Just keep her in the stable and start dating other people. In a few years when she's more mature maybe she'll want something more.
Until then, have fun and don't get hung up on one person. Try drinking and use your pain to cultivate a dark, brooding persona.
Until then, have fun and don't get hung up on one person. Try drinking and use your pain to cultivate a dark, brooding persona.
The ONLY reason to go back to an ex is post breakup sex... Other than that you're doomed to fall into the same patterns before and another breakup is inevitable...
Got to agree that you need some strange... Even if it doesn't make it better, it can never hurt
care to explain what strange is?
I speak from experience. It wasn't fun.
But my heart did have a nice color to it!
i bet it wasnt fun, i couldnt imagine it!
a nice colour? as in you felt you had grown more and could give more to future relationships? or were you completely turned off?
At the risk of violating several forum rules, I won't post it here. I'll just leave this link to a definition. (Uh, probably not safe for work, young children, or small household pets.)
http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=strange
I'll defer to jecapaga since he was the one who originally posted that comment.
It wasn't.
I think all life experiences affect the way you look at things. So in that regard, you grow as an individual as you learn more about yourself.
Hope that makes sense.
ahhhhh im with ya now
all goodI'll defer to jecapaga since he was the one who originally posted that comment.
makes complete sense, im currently in my first and only relationship. its heading towards 3 years. i now that isnt very long to a lot of people, but to me its been a very long time and very rewarding. there are lots of things to consider along the way, lots of disagreements but it all comes down to a mutual agreement between you two, if the two people agree on that then thats all i see that matters. not the other external crap..
