Did your
original thread on this
exact subject not get enough steam? I guess not.
Here is the deal. Based on the threads you have created the iPad Air is not a device for you. I am not discounting problems at all. I am discounting your elevated stress levels resulting from an electronic device. This very device is one that you do not need to own. In fact, no one needs an iPad. The iPad was brought to consumers and I believe it was not until we saw tablets that we all figured they would fit into our lives at some point.
It is indeed terrible if the iPad Air, or any iPad, is incapable of having 3-5 tabs open at once without having to reload the page each time. The frustration you feel where you're typing a message on a board and it reloads because you left that tab for another and came back, is indeed aggravating. I am unsure if I felt the elevated stress levels that you seem to feel. You post as if you're borderline postal about it.
But then there is this
You are part of your own problem and your eventual demise. This goes for just about anything you can possibly face in life. Deciding, before you even try, to contact the manufacturer of a device to discuss the issues you are having would result in failure is a failure on your own part.
You need to return the iPad. You need to understand as quickly as possible that starting a thread and demanding that Apple fix something ASAP is pointless. The time spent here posting about this issue demanding it be fixed is wasted. You need to tell the only people who can fix this issue and instead, you're here, starting thread after thread.
Again, my immediate recommendation is to get rid of the iPad. If something so utterly insignificant will cause you this amount of stress then this is the device you need to stay away from. Spend a bit more and get a MacBook Air. Hugely portable and a machine that won't reload tabs. I've owned one of the earlier revisions and I can attest to the handling.
tl;dr (which is my guess always)
Relax, return the iPad, it is not that important of a device that you need to make yourself insane over it.