As an owner, I’d say the XR is overpriced vs the competing market, and sure it’s technically “outdated” in departments like display, etc....none of which personally matter to me. (The screen looks great in day-to-day use).
But I’ll gladly pay $749 for this phone, that works seamlessly in conjunction with my other devices in the Apple ecosystem, vs less for something that stands alone on its own. Best phone I’ve ever owned, even if it is technically overpriced vs the market.
I’m a firm believer that many things go unmentioned as to the experience of owning a smartphone, and particularly one in a robust ecosystem of products. Being able to handoff to multiple devices at any given moment, seamlessly transition AirPods to-and-from devices, iMessage across multiple devices, etc all go into the experience of using my XR.