I was in a similar situation as this genius. I was a field rep for major car company in a very prominent area of the country that had high market share. It was a high end car; read Lexus, MB, BMW category.When we brought out the a new series in 98 or so, it was a software nightmare. We ended up buying a lot of them back. I was instructed from corporate to do exactly what the customer wanted, and give him his money back if he wanted out. All of it. I had a company checkbook and could write the check on the spot, and did many, many times.
And yet I had to listen to several customers harangue for hours how it should be built, how other mfrs did things, how the car was not worth it, etc.
I sat and listened and reiterated again, I was sorry, and did he want his money back, I could not redesign the car as we sat there.
It did not matter, some would go on for an hour and work themselves up into a frenzy while I just listened.
I know how this genius felt...he may have handled it wrong but these guys are in a bad position, particularly since Apple corporate has been rather nebulous as to the problem...
Get your money back and move on...life's too short for both involved.