Thanks a lot for calling me stupid. I bought into the hype thinking it could replace my laptop, but in the end it doesn't. That is the reason why sometimes I wonder why I bought it. With that said I do enjoy using it more then my iPod Touch and I like the bigger screen when I use it as a remote for iTunes.
Whether or not the iPad is an actual computer depends on your definition of a computer. A 1970's large LED calculator could be a computer. A stand alone Blu-ray player could be a computer... anything with any sort of processor could be a computer. I think the difference is if the iPad is considered to be in the same class as other traditional "Personal Computers" like Macs or PC's. I don't think it is.
These people don't get it. When we say computer, we don't mean it as literal, we mean it as existential.