Well placed.
I have a few friends in Japan who said that the original iPhone would never sell over there as it lacked features. Japan is so far ahead with features, the cheapest phones are often crammed with things that most people will never use, often because they simply can't work out how and can't find them. Phones often have TV tuners built in and do all sorts of things that we don't get on phones in the west.
Fast forward a few years and not only is the iPhone one of the most popular phones in Japan but the iPad is also a massive hit, even though on paper they should hate it as it just doesn't have enough features and buttons. It looks like people realise its not all about spec sheets and numbers, the most memory and the biggest screen, the most buttons and the biggest manual. Its actually about the user experience and how well it works.
I appreciate the iPhone is not for everyone, some of the Android phones are seriously good, but that does not make the iPhone bad. Just because you get more features does not mean you have a better toy. Look at a base model Mercedes and compare it to a top of the range Ford. Both really good cars, but the Ford wins hands down when it comes to buttons to press and features. It may even be cheaper. However many people prefer the Mercedes. Its harder to customise as you can't get so many after-market add-ons, but maybe most people just want to get in, turn the key, and drive.
Adroid phones are not better, they are different. The iPhone is not better, its different, it depends what you want. Trying to convince everyone that an item is not very good when we all know its going to get top reviews everywhere just looks a bit silly really, sure Apple could have crammed in a few more buttons, but why?
The only thing I can say I wanted was a bit more memory as I wouldn't want to upgrade for a good couple of years and it will come in handy, so 64gig would have been nice. The other things being argued are not accurate - the video calling is wifi only due to the carrier agreements at the moment, I'm sure that will change soon, its not a deal breaker.
If you like it buy it, if you don't then buy something else, but why do people have to try and convince others either way? You don't go round supermarkets trying to change peoples brand choices (well maybe some of you do), so why do it here? It smacks of insecurity and just makes it look like you are not confident with your purchases.
Very well articulated comment on the "state of the union" as things currently are in cell phone land.
You rase a lot of good points and I think what most people are missing here is the different ways people use phones, this is brought out by the different parallels of the different operating systems. With that said, I will clearly state at the beginning I have not used a modern droid phone; with that said I also have not used an iPhone 4.
For me my "mac epiphany" (waiting to be called a fan boi, its going to happen, but I digress) occurred for me in University. I was a geek to be sure, a hard core gamer. Not a programer mind you, but I built my own PC's and I was obsessed with "features". I was the kind of guy who could play a game fine with the rig I had but would switch out graphics cards and ram and over-clock a system to its limits and beyond just to say I ran a higher test score than one of my buddies. It didn't make my experience any better, but it gave me bragging rights.
The local computer shop in the Uni sold macs and some other PC's. I had always scoffed at the macs, they didn't have the features, there spec sheets didn't match they were slower by the numbers and just different. They didn't conform to what I thought I should be buying a computer for. But something struck me about the design of the 12" Powerbook. There were other nice features in the 15" like the back lit keyboard etc, but I needed portability so wiht some research the 12" became my choice and after literally spending days picking it up and rotating looking at its aluminum frame. I decided to pounce. I ended up getting apple care for free, which to me made it a good deal to spite the premium over similar specced PC based laptops. The original plan was to get multiple batteries so that I could run the thing for days (I traveled alot for university). I ended up never having more than one. Sure they got replaced as they drained. I have had a total of 2, and guess what they wern't cheep around 100 even thought I had to install it myself? Weir eh?
I used my Powerbook alot, it went all over the world and I still use it today when I travel. As other posters here have said, it works. I no longer am obsessed with what can make my hardware better or what can do more, the user experience is better. Thats not to say PC's dont have their place. Im out of the PC gaming scene now, consoles and my iPhone do well enough for me now.
To spite what is turning into a longish rant the point I am trying to make is this. Apple products have never been about spec sheet performance. They arn't about ticking boxes for features of having more of this. Apple is wholly, across all its platforms obsessed with user experience. Its not customizable and their hardware is never the best and is always more expensive. Cost comparisons be dammed its true. But the aggregate down what I have always thought to be a fabulous user experience. Sure I can't switch out keyboards and maybe the screen should have gone to 3.7 or 4". Ultimately I don't care, when I get right down to its the user experience I want. I dont use half the features my iPhone 3g offers. I can honestly say that save one time to try it I have never used picture SMS. My girlfriend has an 3gs and I can honestly say we don't shoot video. Does that mean I don't want that in a phone. No its nice to have the option, even more so if it is well executed. But what I can tell you is that the Apple experience on any i-device and even their computers is always polished.
The Evo might be heads and tails above the iphone its bigger faster expandable replaceable battery it has 3g video calling all that jazz. But sliding around it I would bet is just not the same. The ultimate challenge for me is if my parents can pick up a device and use it. Every device from apple we have integrated into their lives I have never had an issue with, other devices, cell phones, remotes, land line phones... their son the tech support gets the phone call.
But I know when my iphone is sitting on my kitchen table and I tell my mom to look at a photo or check something for me she is able to pick that device up and do it. Could she do it on a dorid phone? Maybe, but Im not nearly as confident in that as I am in iPhone 4.
So is the evo a better phone at a better price with a better carrier in the us with more features and better options and more choice? Yes I would probably say it is. Is the iphone a more polished user experience? For me it just works... out of the box with little fuss or fan fare. I don't have to google to find the newest this or the best way to do that, its intuitive. It also just seems to work with everything; my old Mac powerbook, new iMac, 2 iPhones very little config, not one failure for me yet. And these all expanded peice by piece fitting in.
I think my choice is made. Its probably not the best, but it is going to work best for ME. My end experience is not measured in GHZ and MB but how a device and I interact... I think apple understands that and I think their product reflect that understanding. Maybe it doesn't aggregate down as well for others... they long to have something to tinker with and improve. I think the jailbreaking subculture for then iphone suits those kind of people. But for me I unbox turn on sync and it works until I buy a new one, which Im going to do as soon as it comes to Canada in July.