I am not against more RAM per se. I am for a good balance, enough RAM to keep a few apps in RAM but not so much RAM that battery life suffers for little benefit. Wired apps in memory use a surprising amount of energy and it's just not optimal. There's more factors to consider than this overly simplistic "more RAM = better multitasking" because it just isn't the only factor. iOS is more efficient with memory management to start with, so it just doesn't need nearly as much RAM as android devices do.
Seeing how bad Android phones make the iPhone look when it comes to battery life, I think you're making way to big of a deal when it comes to the power use of extra RAM. Clearly its very very minimal.