So let me get this straight. It's better to complain after 3.0 has been finalized and nothing can be changed than to complain so it can fixed before 3.0 is released?
You're missing the point. People who have a lot of friends on IM are going to either:
-be getting constant pop-ups through the day even when you're trying to do something
-get beeps everytime you're listening to a song
-sift through eleven screens of apps to find a badge above the icon
This is just one app. The truth is that none of these are the best answer. The best solution is to have one place to check all these things with some minor indication to let you know. Maybe an app icon with a badge that can live on your home screen to alert you you of messages or a pull down. It's not a coincidence that Palm and Google have taken a similar approach to solving this problem.
VERY well said. I'll even bring up something that happens RIGHT now on the current iPhone OS. This scenario (I'm sure you've all experienced this):
1. You get a phone call (or you give someone a call).
2. During the conversation, you receive a SMS text msg.
3. You say goodbye, removing your ear from the handset to hit "End Call"
4. Guess what, you can't b/c the d*mn popup is there. You have to hit "Close" first, THEN hit "End Call."
It's these little tiny things that drive me up the wall.
Again, I want to know what "brilliant" person thought it was a great idea to use the pop-up metaphor on the phone.
w00master