I am thinking about getting the XS over the XR since I absolutely want the newer form factor quicker. My 8+ isn't as responsive to taps. Idk if it is the screen protector or the screen itself. But I don't want to waste time and $ on screen protectors for the 8+ when I know I will upgrade for sure.
$250 for an extra GB of RAM, OLED screen, dual OIS cameras w/ optical zoom, IP 68 water resistance is quite a big price increase.
8+ owner here. I'll get a new phone for sure with my carrier this year and I'm eligible for an upgrade in October so I could wait for the Xr and don't waste a month of contract.
The price difference is big, actually in Europe is about $350 so even if I'm really tempted by the Xs I don't know if I can justify spending so much more.
I think the display is the most important part of a smartphone and although I'm happy with my 8+ LCD I know the ppi on the Xr are lower, so it would be a step backwards to me. Still a retina display, still a good resolution, but not great.
Dual camera: I take many shots with the telephoto lens, so I'd miss it.
3D touch: don't really care as iOS 12 allows to long press on the space bar to move around text and that's my main usage of 3D touch. Peek and Pop are good, but I only seldom use them.
In the end I don't know what to do, if the Xr had the same ppi as my 8+ I'd go for it without any doubts as the dual camera and OLED wouldn't be enticing enough, but as I'm going to look at the display for a few hours every day I want the best possibile technology there.
I don't think I'll get the Max, I got tired of having a big phone in my hands and in my pockets. That's another advantage of the Xs over the Xr.
With the difference between Xs and Xr I could sell my Apple Watch series 1 and buy a series 4, so that's part of the equation. If I decide to keep my series 1 for another year I'd have more budget for the Xs, otherwise I may save some money by going for the Xr and have a new Watch