You're not alone
Re: I went in to the Apple store and was there for an hour and a half trying to get the staff to admit to the contrast problem on my screen. None of them were willing to admit what seems to me to be patently obvious - iPhone LCDs (all the ones I've seen so far) have terrible contrast ratios. They treated me like some kook who complains irrationally about everything. I finally got them to agree to an exchange within 30 days, but it took a LOT of complaining and putting up with some pretty snotty, superior attitudes on their part. I'm NOT impressed with Apple Store customer service on this issue.
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Same sort of mind f..k thing happened to me when the track pad on my new iBook G3 didn't work properly. They tried to tell me that it was due to my using "hand lotion." Fortunately, I'd owned a PowerBook before that, so I knew it wasn't true. Still, it feels awful to be ganged up on like that.
Apple's not playing straight with people on iPhone issues, is even worse in a way, than there being problems to begin with.