Well I finally heard back from my apple store manager (voicemail) and he said he wasn't sure what happened but he had my name on list they were going to try and pull a phone for but he wasn't sure how many they would be getting outside of the reserve quantity. But surely they'll have more than that for off the street customers you'd think.
I'm giving him a call back just to verify everything and to make sure he knew I had the confirmation email. I never hit the cancel button anywhere or got confirmation of a cancel.
If not I guess i'll just wait till the middle of july to finally get one like my 3G. Atleast I won't have to drive 3hrs there and 3hrs right back this time.