Two things about perspective...
1) Have you ever seen more widespread reports of a problem with an Apple product? Have you ever seen dozens and dozens of YouTube videos successfully demonstrating the same flaw, coupled with worldwide mainstream news coverage by the likes of CNN, WSJ, FT, CBS, BBC, MSNBC, FOX and NYT? Have you ever seen this many Mac Rumors members reporting the same problem and being this overwhelmingly negative about it? Loyal Apple fans of 30 years saying "enough is enough"? No, you haven't. So the
perspective you should consider here is that this issue is different from all those you saw in the past, where people whined for a couple of days on forums and then forgot about it.
2) In order to gain some perspective on how f***ed up this issue is, let's detach the whole thing from Apple and the iPhone. Let's instead use, I dunno, Ford and the new Ford Taurus. Let's say that people go out and buy the new Taurus and discover that if you touch the steering wheel in a certain spot, the engine stops. The Ford CEO then responds that it's a "non-issue" and that you simply should avoid touching the steering wheel there. Other drivers of the new Taurus would tell you that you can fix the problem easily by buying one of these...
...or simply wear rubber gloves when you drive.
Would you consider any of this remotely acceptable? My guess is that you wouldn't, but rather that your jaw would drop and you'd just sit there in amazement looking like a birdhouse.