I'm not "confusing" anything here
For example, I have Safari open right now. If I click the red X bubble/button, the window closes but the application remains running. Why? That is stupid. Same with iPhoto, DVD Player, Garage Band, and every other piece of software I can think of. If I close the main application window, the application continues to run just with no window. What's the point?
If I close the main window then the application SHOULD CLOSE.
If I close IE in Windows, the application closes. If I close Safari, iTunes, Firefox, Windows Media Player, Winamp, whatever in Windows then the application closes.
Dude, why do you even bother posting here? I cannot recall the last time you actually posted something.... i don't know..... that wasn't bashing on Apple/OS X in some way. It doesn't matter what you are talking about, you have found a flaw with it, and your general solution seems to be "Just look at what Windows does".
Let me pitch this scenario to you.
You are at Nikon's website, you think their cameras are ok, but frankly, prefer Canon. Which pitch do you think is better?
Option A:"You know, I like the idea of Nikon's cameras, but their execution is a little lacking when it comes to ergonomics. I think if they thin down the right grip a little bit, you will be able to hold it better."
Option B:"You know, compared to Canon, Nikon's ergonomics totally blow. They really should be more like Canon... their ergonomics rock hardcore, and fit my abnormally large hands really well, and is the only thing that I have used for the past 8 years. I only ever picked up a Nikon once, about 3.5 years ago, and didn't really like it, never touched them again since, I think it is for the best. Nikon should just copy everything that Canon does since they are so much better at the game"
You see what I did there? I talked about the same thing, in two different ways. The first way was polite, cordial, and constructive. The second option was well.... d0uc|-|e-baggish. Now tell me, which one is you? And don't lie... we all know it's the second one.
Back on to topic however. Anytime I am sitting in Windows and have to click 28 times on the address bar of the browser in order to highlight the whole line, I simply take a breath and say to myself "This is Windows, it is not the same/as easy as OS X." And a few months ago, when I would try to quickly share a folder on my Tiger system, and found (yet again) that I couldn't just right click on the folder and say "Share", I had to take a breath and say to myself "This is OS X, it is not the same/as easy as Windows". Each OS does things their own way. OS X seems to often just magically install drivers in the background, completely without my knowing (or they are already there). Windows has a well established driver installation system that is more prone to hits than misses these days, and for that, I applaud them. Linux seems to laugh at you as you attempt to install whatever drivers you could find for your device.
OS X does not like things maximized, and even after closing all the windows, likes to leave things in RAM so you can get at it more quickly. Here is a test. Open up Mail if you use it (oh, and by the way, iPhoto 08 quits when you close your last window) and simply close the window. Now, click on it in the dock. Came back up pretty quickly huh? Now, quit Mail and once it is totally gone, click on it again. Took some time didn't it? Certainly longer then when the window was simply closed. That is why Apple made the differentiation. In case maybe, just maybe you don't need that window anymore, but I don't know.... want to access the app again quickly. Heck, when I was in school, I had Word open all the time, just for that reason. And the same applied to eclipse, terminal, textedit, emacs, safari, mail, address book, ical, activity monitor, transmission, adium, itunes, omnigraffle, keynote, firefox, vmware and a couple others that I am probably forgetting. Because if you just thought of something, and want to do it right then, having to wait even 4 seconds for an app to open is annoying, and when you have as fleeting a short-term memory as I do, you need to do it right then before you lose it.