I think it goes both ways. For me, the AirPods sound "good enough" that I don't mind giving up that much sound quality which could be had from a better pair of wired headphones in exchange for the other conveniences its form factor brings.
I won't say you headphone lovers get little respect, but I think you all also need to understand and accept that sound quality is just one of the many factors that go into making a great pair of headphones, and that different people are going to value different properties differently. My first pair of headphones was a pair of Sennheiser momentums, and they had a tendency to clamp really hard on my ears and press them against my spectacles, so I could never tolerate wearing them for more than half an hour.
Key word here - tolerate.
I am no headphone expert. I don't know my SQ from my EQ. What I do know is that people a product which makes them WANT to use them, not be forced to put up with compromises and shortcomings. In contrast, the AirPods are so light and comfortable (again, for me) that I have no issues wearing them for hours on end. I can leave them in my ears even when I am not listening to anything, without any discomfort whatsoever. And because it is so small and portable, I can easily grab it and bring it anywhere with me. When I go to the nearby coffeeshop for breakfast. When I am walking to work. When I am going to meet my friends at the mall. I don't have this bulky pair of headphones that I have to dangle awkwardly around my neck or wind and stuff into my pants pockets if I don't have my bag with me.
It's no surprise that the headphones which I can leave on for hours on end with no problems whatsoever is the one I will naturally gravitate towards and use more.
So when I am trying to explain what make the AirPods so awesome for me, only to have people dismiss them outright because the sound quality is inferior to a higher-end pair of headphones while completely ignoring every other merit the product has, I think even you can see why they would be treated as being elitist and arrogant. It's like "Who died and made you the sole arbiter of what makes a great pair of headphones?"
The AirPods are the best apple product I have bought for a long time. When it comes to convenience, nothing comes close, they are brilliant and I love mine. They are an excellent headphone. SQ is not the problem for me, battery is, makes a very convenient product very inconvenient at times.
The problem we face on these forums tends to be all or nothing mentality, once you go wireless, the rest is obsolete tech....etc etc, so to be honest that is also elitist / arrogant, its like the AirPod has solved the worlds headphone problems and the rest are crap.
All apple products are pros/cons, and for the pointless negativity we get we also get pointless cheerleading, while everyone tries to also play victim, very few here actually have a pros/cons mind set, it has to be crap or awesome....that is not realistic in my opinion.
My AirPods, they are £30 EarPods sound quality, its great for me - and when I say great, its based on the Convenience they provide, nothing comes close, they are my go to headphone if I'm out and about like commuting or gym, phone call etc etc.... if I want to sit down and listen to some music and relax, they are crap or me....ill be honest, compared to my other headphones, they sound ......awful.... though I know what they are aimed at, and for their purposes they are brilliant. My bigger issue is with wireless v wired, wireless is inferior, of the few higher end wireless headphones I have, I used them mostly wired now, the difference is that much. Though to appreciate what headphones can deliver......you really need to try some high end ones. Am I being elitist saying they sound awful......... well its like picking up a iPhone x versus a £100 android and saying the iPhone x is a far better device...... in which case we are all elitist hypocrites
I mentioned Pros/Cons - A massive con the AirPods face, outside the apple ecosystem , actually outside apples most recent products, the AirPods are very poor..... even pairing them with an iPod, very poor experience , so lets remember its pros are only enjoyed if you purchase a recent apple product....
I understand where you are coming from and I agree with you - If I was not into audio, the AirPods would be brilliant for me, and could not think of a better solution, outside of the another device to have to charge.....