I’m a STEM student, and yes, it is a very competitive environment. I’m not like that, it stresses me out, and I don’t like to compete. I am not excellent, I’m average, that‘s why it’s taking me longer. And I’m fine with that, I’m not as smart as most of my classmates, and not everyone can be on the top 10. I also have a situation, I won’t disclose here, that make things even harder for me. Regardless, I have the determination to finish my degree, even if it’s hard for me to find a job on my field.If you ever graduated from things like Electrical Engineering from a tier-1 US or Canadian university, you will realize that that schedule wasn't so bad. We described the midterm week as the hell week, etc. It's all studying and no fun. Everyone was super breakneck competitive and smart. The workload was out of the roof and the stress level was off the chart. Most people don't know what it takes to become an Engineer, or a STEM graduate for that matter, from a competitive program in a reputable university. Your average run-of-the-mill high school would not prepare you well even if you were a top student. The Chinese do that to keep their kids competitive.
And don’t get me wrong, when I was on the school, both primary and high school, my schedule was from 8AM to 6PM, then at home, homework from 7PM to 9PM, then dinner and then a bit of TV. I know what it is to be almost all day on the school, but I still think it can be stressful. It kinda was for me. Because we’re not all the same.
But I know what you mean, China prepares their population to be the best of the world, to be highly competitive. To be the best working machines. To prioritize work over life itself. I’m not on that flock, I truly believe in working to enjoy life, rather than living to enjoy the work.
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