Despite the sample bias caused by the whinging in the forums, Apple laptops are far more reliable than the competition when you look at the data. Consumer reports (pay walled, but
ZDNet from 2017), for example, gives Apple the only 10/10 reliability rating in their 2018 survey.
Apple Insider, when investigating the rise in butterfly keyboard failures, explicitly makes the point that while more keyboards began failing in 2016, relative to the years before, the overall service request rate on Macbook Pros has gone down. MBPs are more reliable than in the past, it's just that when they do fail it had been more likely to be a keyboard issue. The 2017 model brought the keyboard failure rate down below where it had been in 2014.
When you're surrounded by overly emotional opinions, it helps to seek dispassionate data... That said, most of the data I see is from the US, and a lot of the complaints I see are from Europe, so there may be a Europe specific issue that isn't captured in the data.