To my eyes it's a very feminine looking product (long and slender) You may think different which is ok

. Everyone's tastes differ.
I agree. And the OS look is feminine as well. I feel that iOS 6 was more neutral and classy, where iOS 7 is very retro/80's trendy.
I keep hoping for Apple to give us the choice of a BIG screen too. Anything between a Nexus 5 and Galaxy Note 3 would be perfect.
I don't get people's complaints about fitting it in pockets, unless you're always wearing really tight skinny jeans (I never have, and never will).
One handed use is another story, but I find that it all has to do with what you're used to and I can adjust the phone position in my hand to reach everywhere. I rarely use the phone one handed; I don't walk and text, drive and text, etc. I keep my eyes where I'm going. If I must do so, I use the dictation function for text and Siri (when it works).
But because of the small screen, I still have to use two hands to see what's on the screen (by zooming
a lot)
I would've wanted that pocketable tablet or phablet from Apple. However, I'm tired of waiting and are already shopping for a new phone (can't take the 4s anymore). So for me, it's a tossup now between Nexus 5, Galaxy Note 3, and HTC One Max.
So maybe in 2 years when my contract's up, Apple will have "de-kiddified" iOS and is offering a larger size in at least one iPhone model. But by then I may have switched ecosystems. Time will tell.