The only sheep are the ones who feel their lives must be ruled by this hunk of metal and glass. You claim its defective, yet you continue to use it.
What does that make you?
What would you rather have us do? We don't work for Apple nor foxconn. We can't re-write the software or re-engineer the phone for you. We can't make Apple give you a free bumper.
No amount of repeating the same bile over and over at us is going to change that.
Your options are to wait for a fix (which you appear unable to do), demand an exchange (which you appear to refuse to do) or take it back and get a refund (which you again refuse to do).
The latter two options force Apple to take a hit in the pocket book and registers your dissatisfaction with the device. If you want any hope of making Apple listen to you,
that's the way to do it. Posting tantrums in a forum that Apple higher-ups will never read or pay any attention to won't do a lick of good for you.
So do you apparently. The "death grip" appears to be not only a way to make the iPhone 4's signal meter to drop, but the stance people like you take when someone dares suggest that you part with it.
You cling to your iPhone tighter than the fanboys you rail against. Why? Is it worth the aggravation to you?