Nope, hence why love is grouped with war in the phrase.
I wouldn't do it to somebody I know and/or respect, but some schmuck I don't know? Couldn't care less.
Well, that's an ******* way to live.
Nope, hence why love is grouped with war in the phrase.
I wouldn't do it to somebody I know and/or respect, but some schmuck I don't know? Couldn't care less.
If it's meant to be, it's meant to be. Ask her and see what happens.
From my own experience, I was interested in a women, but she was living with another guy. She approached me and we had a wonderful five months together before she pulled the plug because she couldn't take the stress (she was still living with the other guy, though he was never around). I had another chance, after he left for good, but I froze and maybe it wasn't meant to be, but over thirty years later, I still think what if. Life is too short not to take the chance.
You dated a woman for 5 months who was in a relationship with another man? What the hell. I have to stop visiting this thread.
I've dated women that were in another relationship with another man and I didn't even know it..
Who's "wrong" ? Me or the woman ?
And can you please define "wrong" ?
Well, that's an ******* way to live.
It sounds like you don't have the experience to get with this girl, and furthermore, you may be misinterpreting her actions.
First, women are able to determine experience. You say you have none, so she likely can tell this. Probably, you are in the "friend zone" with her.(e.g. You say she wants you to be near her, sit with her, etc., when she goes out with friends. She may be using you as a "placeholder" man so that other men do not bombard her.)
You need to do two things.
1. Get a book (like The Mystery Method) that discusses the phases of courtship.
2. Practice practice practice! If you truly are 'uninterested' in other women, this should be easy, because if you are uninterested, you won't be nervous.
As I said above, women have very good social instincts. If you haven't had a girlfriend, women can pick up on this, and they will find this unattractive.
Therefore, if you want to get with this girl, you need to learn about women (first by reading), become attractive to her, and then attract HER to YOU.
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Posting on Macrumors is amusing, but this is totally the wrong venue to solve a problem like this.
Knowingly dating someone who is in a relationship is WRONG for whoever knows. Come on now. You know the difference between right and wrong, we are not 12.
Knowingly dating someone who is in a relationship is WRONG for whoever knows. Come on now. You know the difference between right and wrong, we are not 12.
Can you provide a link to some official governing body that says dating a woman with another boyfriend is wrong ?
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Yeah, it's called having moral standards for yourself and others.
What's "moral" for one person might be normal for another.
Within reason of course. As long as its not illegal .
I personally don't believe in a lot of sex before marriage but its perfectly fine for others and I don't condemn them for it.
If the partner of the person dating another person is not ok with it, the person is a cheating scumbag and it is wrong. There is no justification for that. If they have an open relationship, then fine whatever.
You do realize it takes TWO to tango.
If the BF has a problem with another guy going out with his girlfriend he should be just as upset with his GF.
Yes, hence why I said the partner would be a cheating scumbag....
And it is equally wrong for a person to knowingly date a person in a closed relationship.
What if a person is in a relationship with a bad person and meets a nice person someplace. Is that person bound to stick with the bad person or can that person go out with the actual nice person ?
So. to follow that logic. If both of these people are "scumbags" what was the nice person doing in a relationship with a scumbag ?
It's all relative.
What if a person is in a relationship with a bad person and meets a nice person someplace. Is that person bound to stick with the bad person or can that person go out with the actual nice person ?
Come on, you know better. Stop with the crap questions. It's called keep your peter in your pants and your date money in your wallet until you've broken up with your current partner.
It sounds to me like you are trying to justify similar questionable activities you've taken part in yourself.
Just think of me as a bad person. Your day will be less stressful.
So. to follow that logic. If both of these people are "scumbags" what was the nice person doing in a relationship with a scumbag ?
It's all relative.
I personally don't believe in a lot of sex before marriage ...
Knowingly dating someone who is in a relationship is WRONG for whoever knows. Come on now. You know the difference between right and wrong, we are not 12.
I was very fortunate to meet the most amazing girl ever about a year and a half ago. We worked together in the same company and a few months in we were both transferred to the same office! I fell for here immediately she is absolutely stunning both here looks and here personality. Never have I meet anyone like here. We are both in our early twenties. A little background about myself, I never had a proper relationship before. I was only ever interested in two girls before and I was shot down twice. Therefore I was very cautious with her, since it would have been quite awkward for us if things went bad since we worked together. She kinda flirted with me at first and I played along but didn't make a move. Turns out, she met someone about two weeks after we first met and got into a relationship with him. They have been together for almost a year and a half. I later found out that she really liked me but was also afraid to make a move. We have so much in common it's amazing - exercising, love cooking, eating out in good restaurants, music, serious work ethic, cinema etc...
I am a better and more motivated person thanks to her, I am able to push myself further and harder just by thinking about her.
Over the last year and a half I haven't been on a single date, girls that I would normally fall head over heals for do nothing for me. And two have been interested in me. I just don't have any interest in any other girl. It's not like I'm broken hearted about this but I have no interest in any other girl at all. And i'm cool with it. I thought that perhaps it was just a crush that would pass but I am crazy about here for over a year and a half.
Over the time that she has been in a relationship we met quite often but only as a group of friends with other people. Never one on one. I would never try to push myself closer to her but would always oblige when she wanted me. She always wanted me to sit next to her when we went out anywhere and we even shred meals and stuff. I never openly told her my feelings for here but she knows I like her.... a lot!
Anyway, I predict her relationship will end soon. It will be an easy breakup probably as both her and her boyfriend are in different places and want different things.
I will never try to push myself in but should her relationship end, what should I do? How would I approach this situation? How long should I wait? Do I take her on a date? Would seem a bit strange as we already know each other very well. Any ideas? Should I talk to here and tell her everything I feel? Leave her alone for a few weeks?
Pbbbbbt. Engaged, perhaps. Married, certainly. But you know, even THEN there are exceptions. Nobody is OWNED. "She's MINE" when just dating translates to "I'm a possessive prick and I don't care if she's searching for happiness. I need a regular squack and she's it".
Pbbbbbt. Engaged, perhaps. Married, certainly. But you know, even THEN there are exceptions. Nobody is OWNED. "She's MINE" when just dating translates to "I'm a possessive prick and I don't care if she's searching for happiness. I need a regular squack and she's it".