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Missed my chance with a girl - may have another - what now?
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A. Women in a relationship and not living with or married to someone IS single.
In my younger days I had met women who told me they were not in a relationship when in fact they did have boyfriends. What does a guy do in that situation ?
... what? On Venus, Mars, or Jupiter?
Then that is not the guy's fault, obviously... but that is not the situation here.
On Earth.
On almost every form one fills out that asks about marital status it asks if you are single,married or divorced.
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So someone in a relationship = single.
Nice, got it.
No....meaning unless your relationship is where you live together or married, you can treat any woman who says they are in a relationship AS single as all it takes is for them to decide to be with you vs the current dude.
I would hardly call a woman who has a bf being a large detterent
This is my last post in this thread, if you all want to continue living in a realm where having a boyfriend and being in a committed relationship is considered single and going on dates with someone else's girlfriend behind their back or touching her or flirting with her - or getting in the middle of her and her boyfriend in any way- is considered okay, go ahead. Just don't expect to be with someone faithful once you score this "prize winning girl"- karma's a bitch. Peace.
Who said anything about being unfaithful or behind one's back? You can pursue someone and not have it be "cheating"
I just looked through the OP's threads.
I now think he's just trolling. Nobody can be this stupid.
He has made 3 previous threads about this girl. Gets the same answers, takes no advice and still does nothing.
He either is a troll, has a mental illness, or really needs to grow a pair and man up.
I now think he's just trolling. Nobody can be this stupid.
He has made 3 previous threads about this girl. Gets the same answers, takes no advice and still does nothing.
He either is a troll, has a mental illness, or really needs to grow a pair and man up.
Well uh, she's been in a relationship...
All's fair in love and war? Really? If someone decided "all's fair in love and war" and tried to steal my girlfriend, they'd wind up in the hospital with multiple cranial fractures at the minimum. It's wildly disrespectful both to me and to her (in this case, to the girl he likes, and her boyfriend).
It's one thing if her boyfriend doesn't love her, but it's quite another if he does. And none of you know whether or not that's the case, except perhaps for the OP.
It would be fair to tell her how he feels. It wouldn't be fair to sabotage a relationship with someone (e.g. the boyfriend) who might be very deeply and painfully hurt by a breakup like that.
The OP is obviously a thoroughly decent human being, and many of you seem to be goading him into relatively base courses of action.
To the OP; I'd say go with your head. Let her know, don't push anything on her. Ask her if she sees her relationship going anywhere; if it's just a relationship of convenience, then no one has to get hurt. If they're serious about the relationship, then there's nothing you can do..
Also, as far as getting over someone, the only way to get over her is going to be to stop talking to her. Otherwise you're not going to get over it.
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There are so many things wrong with this I really don't even know where to start.
just out of curiosity when was your last healthy serious relationship?
if you cant respect other people's relationship you surely wont have respect for your own. while you're in this mindset, please dont get married, the stats look bad as it is already.
on another note, this thread is hilarious.... Hold I'm your age! relax! go for it!
Sure it is, but guess what ? If she liked her current BF so much, she wouldn't let you touch her and your flirting would have no effect. No one is saying to date rape the girl. A simple shoulder/arm squeeze here or there a some flirting. If she responds to that, it's because she's more into you than the other guy.
If that's the case, why should you care about that poor SOB ? Maybe if he took better care of his GF, she wouldn't be out with other guys for drinks and responding to flirting and physical contact.
All you guys against "slimy" need to start enjoying the BFF party line, because that's where you'll end up sooner rather than later.
Perhaps this thread could be merged with the 'shaving tips' one as the OP's manly 5 O'clock shadow may be too disconcerting for his quarry.
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