This thread is almost painful to read, no should have to go though this stuff just to get the phone to work. Do yourself a favor and return it. Apple will get the hint when they see all of these phones coming back. I have yet to upgrade and i really dont think i will at this point. I dont care how bad i want it and how cool it is of a phone, if it doesnt function well as a phone then i dont want it.
Its ok to be a fanboy, i know we are in some ways but dont be a foolboy!
i think your right, i'll give it a few more days then it's going back