Your argument makes no sense. Increased refresh rates above 12Hz are about this reduction in perceived latency, giving a smoother feeling to the interface, which continues up to about 200Hz or so, more when playing games (due to the narrow aperture). Same thing with the scan rates of touch inputs. And SSDs. Plus, of course, the snappy, responsive 3D Touch'es, which are now gone.
I've tried using the neutered v13 of iOS, which basically doesn't have working 3D Touch anymore, and it just feels really, really slow and laggy because I'm used to 3D Touch. Just like you don't feel like your hard drive is slow, or that an SSD is a revolutionary improvement when you get one, but start tearing your hair out if you ever go *back* from an SSD to a HDD.
If 3D Touch were available as an option for, say $100-$200, it would be a no-brainer for me. As it is, I have the X, passed on the XS for a lack of notable new features, and will have to pass on the 11 despite its great features, as it'll just aggravate me to use it. After all, premium doesn't mean "looks and feels expensive" as reviewers seem to think, but rather "no hassle, no surprises, no aggravation and doesn't specifically suck at anything", a standard the butterfly-keyboarded laptops were first to fall short of, now followed by the newer generations of flagship iPhones. Good thing it's a closed ecosystem that's hard to leave, and nobody else even pretends to care about privacy.