well after waiting and waiting and waiting and, you guessed it, waiting some more for my pre-ordered matte + stock to arrive (via a reseller), I finally ran out of patience this morning and resolved to buy a standard glossy, which is in stock at my local Apple Store (melbourne). told the sales guy, in a casual kind of way, that the glossy wasn't so bad, but that i really wanted the matte screen... lo and behold, they had one sitting in stock.
seems that the Apple Stores, atleast this one, are not just stocking the standard model. mind you, i had called this store previously, including as late as this morning, and been told on both occasions that the store only had the standard model in stock. just got lucky i suppose!