One simple thing the iPhone has going for it, at least among my friends, is the amount if people who have one. That in turn leads to the usage of iMessage and eliminates the size restrictions of mms messages. It also eliminates the iPhone charger v micro USB proliferation debate. The final thing that tips the iPhone for me is interaction with peripherals like Bluetooth systems. For me iPhone does this much better.
Size restrictions of mms messages and USB chargers? How does the number of iOS users alter what a carrier does? Outside of the US and UK, the number of iOS users is small (almost negligible in fact), so are you just referring to the US here? Because the entire world uses USB (which is roughly 8 out of every 10 phones sold worldwide) to charge their phones and tablets. While I may agree with you that the Apple charging method is superior, it is proprietary and used on very few devices in the world. The EU, China and Russia may force Apple into changing their chargers in the future. I have heard that legislation is being thrown around with regard to this.
As for BT, both iOS and Android are using BT LE 4.0 now and A2DP has been in both OS's for quite some time. The only difference is, the Android OS allows for all peripherals like gamepads, mice, etc, while Apple does not, unless you jailbreak.
Maybe I am just failing to understand what you are getting at?? Or maybe you haven't used Android and know it can do these sort of things?