Because the problem happens with all phones, depending on your method of usage. They changed their policy and aren't replacing phones for the proximity sensor issue anymore. They are telling customers to wait, it will be fixed with a software update.Really not trying to be an ass here dude, but you've got a lot of negative energy going on here. Not healthy.
This prox issue is so random (unlike the antenna issue, I can't find anyone who has it here at the office out of a good sized group of IP4s), why not keep trying replacement phones until you get one that works for you?
So we all wait. This is something we shouldn't have to worry about. It should be a high priority for Apple NOW.