I think it's funny that people in mac forums always tell people to repair permissions, flash pram and then when those things don't work, it means you have bad RAM...
it seems like this is the advice givenno matter what the problem actually iswhen OS X crashes. The implication being that OS X itself couldn't possibly have a problem or anything, so it simply must be a hardware failure, and since usually the only non-Apple-branded hardware is added RAM, that's the favorite whipping-boy.
in PC land, when the OS crashes, people start looking for driver and software conflicts, and start asking to see crash logs, etc. They don't tell people to rip their machine open and start "reseating" the RAM.
Please.
If the RAM isn't properly set, the machine probably won't boot up to begin with. He's having a problem with Sleep mode. Lots of people have trouble with Sleep mode. Often it's got something to do with an external hard drive or a USB connection to a cable modem or something like that, but it's an OS X problem, not a hardware problem. Driver incompatibility, or a buggy bit of code. something like that.
You guys were surprised when you found out he only had original RAM in there, like Apple uses magic RAM that's somehow better than the sticks fabbed and tested in the same factory that didn't get an apple stamp on them. if anything, apple goes cheap on their RAM to cut costs.
skeptic, can you post a crash log for us to look at? maybe we can get some useful information? or do you guys want him to keep pulling the RAM out and blowing on it like a Nintendo cartridge, hoping it will eventually work?