HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
I know kids whose parents got divorced. I know kids who were raised with single parents. I know kids who went through Hell on Earth being raised, poor and (sometimes) abused. I know a lot of these kids. I know a lot of kids whose parents stayed together, and were far less strict than you suggest.
They all came out fine. Got jobs (or at least trying...you know how hard the economy is these days), getting married, starting new lives (I even know a young girl who's got herself a house now. Her mom was a single parent)
I'm sorry you can't see far beyond your small town with its trailer trash, Moral Guardian Troll.