While it's not my style, I would say yours is a hell of a lot better than the night mode selfie. I think the distinction I'd make is your shot appears to be that way by your choice. If you wanted, you could probably have taken it a bunch of different ways and edited it differently. For the night mode selfie, that appears to be close to as good as it's going to get. That level of noise and softening isn't really something you can easily do much with, so if it's not to your taste then you're out of luck.
Of course, I haven't used the phone and this is just one shot in worst-case conditions, so maybe there's more wiggle-room than I'm giving it credit for. All I'm saying is that to my eye, it's an objectively bad photo because of how it looks and how much room it gives you to fix it.