no kidding
op, youve waited this long so wait a little longer so she can get tested if you are so concerned
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Question about girl and STDs.
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no kidding
op, youve waited this long so wait a little longer so she can get tested if you are so concerned
As a girl, I think this is a complete load of BS. If she's sexually active, she's probably been to a gynecologist before, and some of the testing requires no more than what she'd normally go through in an annual exam to begin with. Other tests are done by drawing blood. From your arm. Not invasive at all.
I always suggest erring on the side of caution. Never assume that someone does not have any STDs because they slept with someone who didn't have any at the time they were tested. Always use a condom.
Personally, if she's unwilling to get tested for you, she's not worthy to be your first. She can't guarantee you that she is STD-free no matter what the state is of the men she's slept with before. In other words, she's willing to put your health at risk to avoid her own discomfort. That's complete *****.
The fact that she uses the invasiveness of the test as an excuse not to get tested should start the alarm bells ringing for you. If she's sexually active and changing partners, the only respectful and sensible thing to is to get tested. If she won't, then I would walk away. The only test results you should have to relate to are hers and your own, not those of her previous partners.
Invasive tests are something women just have to live with.
Edit: r6girl said it much better!
Invasive tests are something women just have to live with.
Edit: r6girl said it much better!
i agree with what you said and want to add to those who think she is whoreish
since when is having sex make someone not perfect?
last i checked its a natural thing lol
Alright thanks everybody. Consensus reached: She will get tested, or I will remain a virgin for now.
Well... condoms are generally 99.9% effective.
So theoretically... you are safe.
Just make sure you are always protected.
If your not 100% happy with having sex, talk to her. Ask her to get tested again?
If she 'loves' you... she would understand.
On another note. Enjoy becoming a man =D
So theoretically... you are safe.
Just make sure you are always protected.
If your not 100% happy with having sex, talk to her. Ask her to get tested again?
If she 'loves' you... she would understand.
On another note. Enjoy becoming a man =D
Well, I of course don't think that. But it seems some people do.
Good for you.
The thing is she's just a little frustrated because she took extreme precautions herself when doing it, so that she wouldn't have to deal with this.
STI testing really isn't that invasive these days. Even for women. For chlamydia it's a urine test. For HIV it's just a routine blood test. There's really no need to be doing a pelvic exam/taking cervical swabs from her. Although if she's sexally active she should be getting regular pap smears within a couple of years of becoming sexually active anyway.
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1. Seek medical advice on an internet forum
2. Seek legal advice on an internet forum
3. Seek relationship/sexual advice on an internet forum
Woof, Woof - Dawg
Three things you should never do...
1. Seek medical advice on an internet forum
2. Seek legal advice on an internet forum
3. Seek relationship/sexual advice on an internet forum
Woof, Woof - Dawg
Especially one inhabited by nerds.
Then she was either misinformed or fooling herself. You are not the first person she will meet who will expect her to get tested, and she should do so for the sake of her own health regardless.
Good choice, btw.
I echo MacDawg's advice, but since you said this I have to say that taking precautions is one thing. Doing it thinking you'll never have to submit to a test shows her immaturity. I don't think she is a whore by any means but you CAN contract something even if some dude didn't put his dirty P in her clean V.
As yourself why you need to rationalize your possible night with this girl so much.
Who said there was anything wrong with being whorish? Have you seen rap music videos?
She is now saying she'll get tested and that i'm worth it.
Were the other guys worth it to her? Just askin'
Were the other guys worth it to her? Just askin'
They didn't ask her to get tested. She was a virgin for the first one, and the second one figured she's clean because the first guy was clean.
dont have sex unless you are ready to bear any consequences of it
its for grownups, not kids
any dude can get a girl pregnant, not all can be a father
its for grownups, not kids
any dude can get a girl pregnant, not all can be a father
I don't quite see how it's like that. If she only did it once, with a condom, with one clean guy, couldn't the second guy figure that she's clean?
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