I am almost certain that is anecdotal - the GPU architecture is practically the same, with 460 having more shaders and Mhz. And that causes more heat and spends more energy.
The only way a faster GPU of the same architecture could heat less/spend less energy is for it to complete a task faster, before it reaches maximum temperature. For example, if it renders a scene way before it reaches higher temperatures. However, in most GPU tasks, like gaming, the GPU is under constant pressure as new frames need to be constantly rendered, so I don't see how 460 could activate the fans less.
I'm not saying the 460 heats much more - I have no idea - but it's very likely it does heat up more than 450/455.
Still, even though I have a 455, I don't think heat/battery life is a reason not to get 460. The best reason is: if you don't need it, why spend money on it? But if money is not an issue - I'd go for the 460, honestly. I was only able to get stock models and no BTO, so the 460 was never an option, so I have the 455. With that said, the 455 performs really great and don't really see any benefit to 460 other than gaming and a very small number of apps.
BTW - my 455 MBP is the most silent Mac I've ever owned. And is quite cooler than my previous MBP.
TLDR: If you have the money and want the best, get 460 and don't worry. Otherwise, 450/455 is fine. Only my opinion, based on what I read.
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For Bootcamp gaming, go for 460. For apps - I'd say 450/455 is more than enough, yeah.
Just read your usage: no, you won't see any difference between 450, 455 and 460.