If you read my last post I raised the important issue of what the OP's intent was. What was it, OP? Did you know what chapters the test covered and wanted more detail into what you should *wink wink* study or did you not have a syllabus with accurate information on what was testable material?
The intent seems to clearly be not cheating, but you can't blame the professor for assuming cheating. I mean I read the e-mail and that's what I got out of it. Especially because the e-mail was sent to another student, the phrasing was awful.
Based on how vague the original email was, I really don't see how anyone could say the professor's return email wasn't an over-reaction. And about sarcasm: EVERY response warrants sarcasm.
Everyone is going to act differntly, but most schools have a strict policy regarding cheating and it's not to be taken lightly. If I was a professor I would have reacted differently, mainly that I would have called said student into my office, but I don't think my reaction would have been much different, perhaps just more wordy. People take sarcasm to varying degrees, given that the OP was planning on b****ing out his/her professor at first, I'd say everyone should take a step back and be civil and cordial. Challenging professor's can be good, but not when on paper you look to be wrong.
I strongly disagree with this notion. Professors aren't better than their students, they're usually just more knowledgeable about a subject. He might feel he has the authority by which to disrespect you, but he doesn't until what you were asking for is made clearer. I don't let any professor push me around. That being said, I would never instigate anything and I'm not that guy who raises his hand for the sole purpose of getting into a disagreement.
I agree that professors are no better, but remember the relationship. I don't feel that the professor disrespected the OP, especially given the OP's e-mail. The OP mishandled this situation from the start IMO.
1. You should have contacted your professor
2. I understand e-mail is convenient, but if you miss that much class, sitting down and talking during office hours would seem best
3. You should reread what you type, because it seems fairly unanimous on paper to be one thing
I agree that we are all people and all equal, but when you challenge your professor and disrespect them, your life has a better chance of becoming hell and then it becomes about "standing up to the man" as opposed to learning, the whole reason why you are there. In this instance, the professor is not pushing you around at all, they are doing their job. If I thought a student was trying to cheat on my exam, I'd take it as a personal insult.