So glad I wasn't the only one having this problem! There was also an outage on sept 27th and all morning today. In both instances, I did not even know it wasn't working until I became curious as to why I didn't receive any replies... it was because my messages never sent!
Would rather not have to turn my phone off every time this happens...
So much for "Apple products: They Just Work", eh?
In my experience, Apple products need to be reset, and the OS needs to be reloaded more than any other product from any other manufacturer. I base that on my 3GS which needed to have the OS reinstalled multiple times.
With my Galazy S3, which is a year old, I have NEVER needed to reinstall the OS, and in a year, I've pulled the battery for a hard reset only twice.
With the 3GS, any little glitch in the overly long and complicated "Sync" process would mean that the whole device got borked.