I would agree with that assessment. I didn't want to put words in your mouth.
I've read/watched reviews from The Verge, Engadget, cNet and there seems to be a level of underwhelming experience.
The performance is good, but that's to be expected, but as a complete package I'm getting a ho hum vibe. I forget which review I read, but they basically said the new MBP is not for them.
Yes it is upsetting, I have been waiting for this revision a long time. I am sure it will be more than capable as a machine, but at that price, and with very good Windows alternatives out there, it makes it a no-brainer for me not to invest in the touch-bar models, perhaps in a year or two. The thought of the experience being worse than my 2014 MacBook would hurt too much. Especially as my work flow is more CPU intensive, running VM's etc, the battery hit is likely to hit hard and the touch-bar is even less useful when using VM's.
I may still go ahead with the purchase of the non-touch, which although has nothing particularly exciting about it and I am probably better off with an alternative Windows system as I actually don't mind Windows 10, having an iPhone/Apple Watch sync with it easily could be worth it anyway.