Roaming Eyes... disrespectful?

It's an involuntary response, we can't help it...really. It's hardwired into our brains.

 

Agreed. It's hardwired, like shoe shopping is with women. You should worry if he didn't look..

 

What exactly is he doing?

 

The rules are always you can look, but you can't touch. Seems like he's following the rules. Stop worrying about the little things and enjoy the relationship. At least your boyfriend isn't 15,000km away like I am to my girlfriend.

 

I've been married for twelve years now, and I still "check out" other women from time to time.

Try not to take it personally. If he's like most guys, his doing that is no reflection on how he feels about you. Remember, he's with you and not with them.

 

You've never checked out another guy?

 

As long as its only his eyes which are roaming you should be fine.

 

I'm guessing you're under the age of 30. That's not meant as an insult, but rather it explains the question (if I'm right). All guys look... and will look until we're dead. If he's discreet about it and not doing a never-ending stare in your presence, then you win. If he doesn't take his eyes off of someone else while in your presence, then you have a reason to be angry.
If you constantly make a big deal out of the former, you will find yourself fighting every male in existence, trying to make all males conform to your thinking, rather than simply accepting things for what they really are.

 

unfortunately, I'd have to agree. It's just something that men do. I wouldn't spend a whole lot of time thinking about it.

 

buy him sunglasses - win! win!

 

Sorry, I could have worded my post WAY better. I wasn't meaning to point fingers either.
I was a clumsily written question.

 

Well it could be that too.

I'm sorry, everyone bash me now so she feels better again.

 

There ya go!

 

Just to add a bit more, I was recently on vacation with my gf. While on vacation, I saw NUMEROUS slim, built 20-something year olds in bikinis. Yes, you know I looked - and looked all week long. I didn't do it disrespectfully. I wasn't staring with my jaw on the ground while my gf was attempting to talk to me, but my gf knew I was looking... and she was looking too, though the eye candy was mostly female.

Again, I think it's an age/experience thing. The younger one is, the more they complain about this issue. As people mature and realize there's no harm in this, it becomes a non-issue.

 

I check out other women all the time. It doesn't mean I am in any way dissatisfied with my wife, it's just natural to appreciate all beauty, not just the beauty you married.

(That's my story, and I'm sticking to it!)

 

dress a little sexier. maybe his eyes will wander over to you.

 

Sorry, it's almost 4am (stupid mac events ). Doesn't sound like you have a problem though, your on MacRumors must be a cool enough girl. As I said before looking = Touching =

 

I really wouldn't worry about it.

 

That looks strangely familiar...