That's not how I read your first post, your 2nd post is much more reasonable. You seem to think that Apple invented smartphones and tablets which is clearly not true. What Apple did was package the hardware and software to appeal to the masses and market them effectively, but they did not invent either of them by a long shot. You just make it sound like Android copies everything from Apple alone to such a great degree that even their development cycle is affected by such copying, come on.... You haven't gotten an OS update because Android has nothing to copy from Apple? Come on...
As for Android users wanting the Apple experience, that's not true at least in my personal opinion and use. Personally I actually want more of a windows experience, keep in mind I do not speak for every user, just myself. I was a big fan of Windows Mobile, but I like to root around in a system that allows me incredible flexibility, I understand the simpleness of iOS is what appeals to many users. I use both iOS and Android on a daily basis and I see many differences, the things that are similar are obvious things that any tablet/smartphone would use and were used BEFORE the iphone or ipad were released. The fact that Apple copied these elements in no way takes away from the greatness that is inherent in their smartphones and tablets. I'd say Android users want a great touch interface and user interface, but not necessarily Apple's, and there are enough differences where you really don't get iOS if you are using Android. It's kind of an inane argument to begin with though.
As for your assessment of "android users", which I assume means someone who is committed to Android alone and won't touch Apple (which is really not anyone) it's pretty far out there, at least speaking from my own personal opinion. Android users don't come here from the far reaches of Androidville, the vast majority of posters on here ARE Apple hardware owners who would like to discuss the differences in hardware and software and eventually come to own which one is best for them. Sure just like there are hardcore Apple fanboys, there are also some bad Android Apples who only post to make trouble, but really the vast majority, as is true in most extremes in life, really fall somewhere in the middle and are just exploring their options and discussing why they made their choices. Your analysis goes equally both ways, you can't cry wolf that "android users" (once again whatever that means) are insulting you when these things happen both ways on a daily (probably hourly) basis.
Once again I do apologize for calling you a fanboy, but for the reasons stated in my first couple of paragraphs your post just seemed more like a vehemently stated personal opinion than anything else. There were some glimmers of opinion that I also agree with though. As it stands I own and love Apple products, but in SOME ways I wish they took a cue from Android and allowed me to do certain things I cannot do in iOS, but my hardware dollars have chosen Apple for the time being, this might not be the case when the 10.1 comes out but I haven't decided that yet.