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Isn't this whole thread presumptuous that the night will lead to having sex?

I suppose so. I assumed that they've already had at least a few romps, either that or he was scouting for options on the off chance this is his lucky night or something. Hence, a hotel is probably a bad idea.

Nature, man, I keep sayin'! :D
 
My Strategy would be

1. Take her to her place if possible
2. hotel/motel room if you could afford it.
3. Park in a dark spot someplace and do it in the car

Good luck
 
Be up front with your mom.

Tell her you are (most likely) going to get the proverbial "lucky" and if she wouldn't mind making herself scarce for a couple hours that night.

Let her know you'll give her a call/signal (drawing the curtains open and close a few times, sticking a light in the window etcetera) when you're both done and all freshened up, so she doesn't needlessly spend time cooling her heels on a street corner late at night… on the other hand perhaps your mom might get lucky as well and you'll all be happy.

I vote for this plan.
 
Be up front with your mom.

Tell her you are (most likely) going to get the proverbial "lucky" and if she wouldn't mind making herself scarce for a couple hours that night.

Let her know you'll give her a call/signal (drawing the curtains open and close a few times, sticking a light in the window etcetera) when you're both done and all freshened up, so she doesn't needlessly spend time cooling her heels on a street corner late at night… on the other hand perhaps your mom might get lucky as well and you'll all be happy.

I vote for this plan.

Wow, I really hope you are kidding about this. I just about got kicked out of the library because I laughed so hard when I read it.:D
 
Her place or hotel, one that doesn't require an advanced booking.

Don't worry about being 21 and at home. I'm 24 and still at home, same as almost all my friends (including ones with good jobs). It's mighty expensive (around here in the UK at least) to get your own place unless both people are earning £25k and don't have student loans to pay off.
 
Wow, I really hope you are kidding about this. I just about got kicked out of the library because I laughed so hard when I read it.:D


Why? I had a girlfriend in high school whose mother would call from a pay phone on the corner to let us know she was coming home so she wouldn't walk in on us having sex. Not all parents are puritanical and living in the 19th century.
 
Why? I had a girlfriend in high school whose mother would call from a pay phone on the corner to let us know she was coming home so she wouldn't walk in on us having sex. Not all parents are puritanical and living in the 19th century.

Its not about being puritanical. It is about not treating your mom like your college dorm mate and showing her some respect to not kick her out of her own house in the middle of the night so the OP can "get some."
 
Is your mom hot? Cause I'll take her off your hands for a few hours if you need the place to yourself....
 
I think we need to further assess the situation. The OP may be getting ahead of himself here. Let's get a pic of the OP and the girl and we'll be able to tell whether or not he even needs to worry about taking her back to his place.
 
I think we need to further assess the situation. The OP may be getting ahead of himself here. Let's get a pic of the OP and the girl and we'll be able to tell whether or not he even needs to worry about taking her back to his place.

And a picture of his mom... you know, because she's part of this too.
 
So I wake up to all these interesting answers...

I obviously can't take her to a hotel. I know of one guy thats done this and he's only done it cause he's married and kinda sleezy. If my girl was to say yes, considering tonight is our first date, I would immediately see her as being a bit sleezy herself.

As for wooded areas...not really. I mean, there will always be empty park parking lots but in truth it really is creepy. That and not optimal.

As John Hammond from Jurassic Park once said, "..Life finds a way."

Heres the thing. For me, I think I may just rather not have sex tonight...especially the first time. Iono, i'll report later on tonight.

Thanks still everyone! :cool:
 
So I wake up to all these interesting answers...

I obviously can't take her to a hotel. I know of one guy thats done this and he's only done it cause he's married and kinda sleezy. If my girl was to say yes, considering tonight is our first date, I would immediately see her as being a bit sleezy herself.

As for wooded areas...not really. I mean, there will always be empty park parking lots but in truth it really is creepy. That and not optimal.

As John Hammond from Jurassic Park once said, "..Life finds a way."

Heres the thing. For me, I think I may just rather not have sex tonight...especially the first time. Iono, i'll report later on tonight.

Thanks still everyone! :cool:

You think she is sleezy if she banged you in a hotel but the backseat of a car would be romantic?
 
Why would it be more common in Europe? The US sure has plenty of wooded areas and even the biggest of cities usually have some parks with secluded areas. Or one can just travel outside the city a little. :D Where there's a will, there's a way and all that.

i think because, people in europe would not care if they see people having sex outdoors.

in the states, they would call the cops and they would probably arrested for doing something "indecent".
 
I hate the backseat. But the thrill of the potential for getting caught makes it more exhilarating especially when you're dating the daughter of a bible thumping police officer.

However, I still vote backseat if you can't find a place to do it outside on a blanket. Hotels are sleazy.
 
i think because, people in europe would not care if they see people having sex outdoors.

in the states, they would call the cops and they would probably arrested for doing something "indecent".

There's your answer, op. On the first date, take her to Europe!
 
If u want it and she wants it too let her know u can't go back home and do it there since she more than likely knows u live with mom and can't so ask her for her 2 cents? Maybe she has the answer none of us has:D
 
I obviously can't take her to a hotel. I know of one guy thats done this and he's only done it cause he's married and kinda sleezy. If my girl was to say yes, considering tonight is our first date, I would immediately see her as being a bit sleezy herself.

Amazing. You want to have sex on the first date and here you are saying a girl is sleazy if she agrees to go to a hotel that you would have asked her in the first place.

If I were a girl, I would think a guy wanting to have sex on the first date in the backseat of his car is as sleazy as it gets. In fact, I would ager that if she were to read this thread, she would lose interest in the date due to this mindset of "getting some"

Why not have the mindset of having a good time with girl, enjoying her company, than being primitive and only thinking of getting in her pants...

Sorry, your comment struck a nerve
 
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