You can't handle the fact that the OS isn't ready for prime time; that it works fine for some, and is bug ridden and incompatible with some configurations for others. It's a fact. For every one who is posting here pissed off, there are thousands who are not posting here who are pissed off. And that's not good. It means that Apple screwed up by releasing the OS before it was ready. It needs to be work for almost everyone; it needs to work when all you do is follow the instructions on the package. This is the computer that isn't supposed to need tweaking, remember? The one that Aunt Marge should be able to turn on and use?
Yes, I'm sure Apple should feel terrible that they could not test an upgrade installation on every possible software and hardware configuration that every user might have.
You are mistaken that
for everyone complaining here there are thousands suffering who aren't reporting their problems.
There are literally
hundreds of user reviews of Snow Leopard and almost noone are having the kinds of problems described in this and other posts. Almost
noone who is reporting these problems has done basic troubleshooting.
It's a Mac so it's 'just supposed to work'? How about the several users who had their SL upgrade issues resolved when they removed
aftermarket memory modules from their Mac, resolving the trouble?.
The arguments being made about how horrible it is are simply specious. The thousands of people you are going on about are the thousands of satisfied Snow Leopard users.
Will a tiny percentage of users fall through the cracks due to bad or failing hardware, software issues, etc? Sure. Should we all run around in a panic and compare OS X to Windows? Only if we are impaired mentally.
Here's another factoid to digest. With 123 user reviews at Amazon.com Snow Leopard has a 3.5 star rating. Leopard, with over 400 reviews has a 4.0 star rating. If you look at the time frame of when Leopard released it was also rated 3.5 stars at this point in the release cycle. Also known as, Snow Leopard is not any worse than Leopard was at its release and I (and many others) would argue that its actually much much better.
I have loaded Snow Leopard on five different Macs and they are all working great. They were all upgraded and are working great. While troubleshooting an unrelated problem on one machine I eventually did a clean install on it, and it's still working just fine.
Come to grips with the fact that you are in the
minority with these problems and seek the appropriate assistance from Apple Care. I'm sure that's what 'Aunt Matilda' will do if she has issues (which she probably won't). The reason that excellent Apple Care exists? Because computers break, computers are complex, and even the easiest to use computers on the planet can have problems.