I think it is time for people to get serious and try to see what is going on. I know the wake on bluetooth setting is missing, and I know I do not have this problem on 12.3, nor did I have this problem on 12.2. so these are the settings that could impact energy usage that I use (and don't have the problem):
- Sleep, after 5 minutes
- Firewall On, no unnecessary "allow incoming connections"
- Turn display off after 15 minutes
- Prevent Mac from automatically sleeping: off
- Wake for network access: off
- Schedules: none
- Sharing: all off, except for Airplay receiver
I'm sure that this is not an exhaustive list, but I don't have problem. The only bluetooth device I use are AirPods Pro, so no mouse, keyboard or trackpad