Some real arrogance in here, quite amazing, just because you don't have any issues with your iPhone it means nobody else is allowed? Don't be so quick to think its all user issues, I don't think its right to have a phone but to expect a reasonable amount of usage from it you have to turn everything off.
We are not talking luxuries, you need to turn location services off, push off, quit all apps so nothing runs in the background, thats before you start on turning imessage off, bluetooth off etc. Not a lot of point having the thing if you can't use it! I have come from a 3G to 4S this week and the battery life is not good compared to that old beast, I have everything turned off so it's just like my old 3G - I dare not use any of the new features incase I drain the battery before I can recharge it as then I might not be able to use it as a phone - afterall the intended use for me, if not most of you! Sure you can turn stuff off, but it would be better if Apple made the battery last a little longer so we could actually use the features they have given us. You don't get a big warning on their website saying you should keep everything off if you want the phone to last a full day, althought I'm sure it's there in the small print! Apple apologists will always argue in their defence, I have used Mac's since something like 1988 and would never own a windows PC, but I don't agree that Apple is faultless, they make mistakes, some of you would never consider that a possibility!
My partner and son have a 4 each and have none of the same issues, they have everything on that I have to turn off (not bluetooth, no use for that), so the only thing I have that they don't I believe is Siri, and I used that once the day I got it.
I'm sure with responses like the OP got many people would think twice before posting on here, they fear they may be attacked by the pack-hounds. It would have taken no more effort to ask a few simple questions - whats he using it for, has he tried this and that, has he seen these links to other threads he might find useful. Instead people roll their eyes before rolling their sleeves up and get on with the moaning.
I read MR every day, I think pretty much without fail, I read RSS feeds to my phone and I browse forums 6 days out of 7, but I hate posting for these very reasons. I came on today to talk about my own issues with my 4S, saw the thread and thought I would see what help the OP had been offered.....
If you don't want to read the thread you don't have to, there is no requirment to post in every thread, so just ignore it and move on, moaning about someone posting a genuine question is as bad as coming on here to troll.
Interestingly most of those who jumped on the OP registered this year, most have only been here a few years max, I wonder if its just the people who have been around a bit longer who have more manners and are that little bit kinder? Remember kids, just because they are only words on a screen doesn't mean they can't hurt, so be nice and think before you type - it costs nothing to be nice
