I haven’t seen all of the shows yet, just some clips here and there because I haven’t had time to watch any tv lately. But it’s my understanding there are regular people’s stories in there, too, including a kid in a refugee camp. And the celebrities aren’t complaining about anything. Glenn Close was talking about the effects on her and her siblings of being raised in some sort of cult. Her siblings are regular people with severe mental illnesses and were in her story.The issue, to me, isn't that mental health problems exist for them. It's that they can easily afford the best mental healthcare out there. As much as needed for as long as needed. Making it hard to relate with them. Leading to a sardonic response.
Most Americans have the choice of
- No help because it's simply far too expensive and unavailable
- Some cheap pill pusher. Who'll talk to you for five minutes. Then spend fifteen filling out prescriptions and paperwork. While you sit there.
- Go deeply in debt for help
- Make huge sacrifices in their budget to afford help. Causing other hardships in their life and big lifestyle changes. Which then hurts mental health. A sort of Catch 22.
- Maybe get a few inadequate visits a year through insurance. Assuming they don't have a giant deductible.
- Tough it out
- Self medicate
At least that's my take. Having to deal with mental illness in my family. People might be more accepting if the focus was on regular people who don't have access to proper treatment or those who got better in spite of the financial burden involved. Because being aware of mental health issues and asking for help is a fruitless endeavor. If you don't have a way to pay for it. At best you might get some free clinic doctor or one of the few psychiatrists who take Medicaid. Whose help will be woefully inadequate. As they don't have the time for any comprehensive treatment. Due to their massive patient load.
While the topic needs attention. The people who'll watch the show aren't ones who need to be reached. They're already convinced or nearly there. The likes of Oprah and Prince Harry won't reach the average Joe voter. Who needs convincing.
All they see is someone who has everything complaining about how tough their life is. Despite the intentions of the people behind the show. If the general response is derision and scorn. Focusing on reaching them a different way. Perhaps trying many different approaches would meet with more success. Rather than pushing on and being dismissive.
I focus on Americans. As I have no idea how countries with nationalized healthcare deal with psychiatric visits. If it's something paid for as much as needed, not included or included but limited. It's not intended as a slight on America.
I couldn’t really stand Oprah based on what I little I saw of her when she had her show. But I was surprised how helpful her comments were in some interview she had with Hoda Kotb recently. I saw a clip somewhere and decided to actually sit through her entire interview.
She was talking about how she survived some traumas in her life and I found her outlook very helpful for what my family is going through right now with the pandemic. We had so many friends and family die since the pandemic; some to natural causes, some to Covid, a couple to suicide. The kids education has suffered and there’s going to be some job changes. I’m for the first time in ages being hit with severe anxiety attacks as a result of trying to help the kids through theirs and the pressure of suddenly pivoting to return to my normal duties of keeping extended family happy and well. I was really shocked and surprised anything Oprah would have to say on anything would resonate with me at this time. But you just never know where a light is going to shine, I guess.
A lot of women respect Oprah’s success. And a lot of people in general and women in particular find ourselves feeling responsible for the mental and emotional health of our families while sacrificing our own. So I think the audience for this series isn’t likely to be the usual MR forum commenter anyway. But that doesn’t mean there is no audience at all.
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