From my personal experiences and speaking with other people as well. I would prefer women who don't see me as a sleep candidate on the first date. I have to earn her trust, but then that's how a normal person with a dose of healthy personality acts. But you need to be able to attract those women which I did after I had healed my own personality disorder. Like always attract like, because if you want to focus on sex as a priority in the relationship as opposed to a healthy loving relationship, that is what the universe will always deliver.
When a person suffers from a personality disorder, especially if he or she has some desire of control of the outcome of his or her subjective experience, then the trait is usually predictable. If you want to read up on cluster B personality disorder, I suggest reading up on Dr. Christiane Northtrup M.D. She mentioned sex as one of the weapon of choice to exact control. She called these people energy vampires.
Why sex? Well, that's because it is a very powerful control mechanism. As you can see this very obvious spell being casted to the OP by that lady just only 2 dates, even after she ghosted him. When you had sex, the brain's pituitary gland releases a hormone called Oxytocin, which is the feel good drug that actually makes you feel attached to the other person. It is this drug that forms the control relationship; the power aspect of the control and most women with this personality type disorder who loves control know it very well. Sex usually numbs the perception of the male's or female's common sense. The person who is under the influence of Oxytocin and its after effects will continue to believe the person is still being loved, but this is due to the effect of the hormone after sex like a controlled substance to a drug addict. Try to talk some senses to a drug addict not to take drugs and you'll likely be talking to a wall! Once the effect of the hormone Oxytocin wore off is when the person will come to his or her common senses. The longer this relationship goes on, the stronger the bond between individuals and the more power of control the individual who has the upper hand will exact.
