You can’t fix stupid. Our founding fathers understood the importance of having three co-equal branches of government that serve as a check and balance against each other. When President Obama was elected and my right wing family members went nuts offering up such non-sense as “he’ll crown himself king and never leave” I had to explained to them the basic history and design of our Constitution. I had to have the exact same conversation with my left wing family members when President Trump was elected.
Anybody who thinks we won’t make it through whoever the sitting President is and that it’s “never been worse” clearly hasn’t studied the history of the United States of America nor World History. It’s been worse, much worse, and we’ve survived and prospered. Our history is very much that of two steps forward followed by one step back but the arc of justice, freedom and prosperity is long and it trends upward. “It’s never been worse” isn’t a partisan issue it’s an educational issue. Too many of my fellow Americans are simply ignorant of American history and believe too much of what they read on the Internet or see on their partisan cable news channel of choice.
As much as I hate Trump and think he's a disaster, I can't say you're wrong. I personally am someone who is extremely troubled by this particular president for too many reasons to mention here.
But I'll admit, there were plenty of people I know who seemed equally aghast at Obama and thought he was 'ruining' the country, and I would tell them they were being overly dramatic and silly, for the very reasons you highlighted.
But here we are now and I feel the same way about Trump. So intellectually I totally get what you're saying, but on another level, I still think Trump is one of the worst blotches on the institution of the presidency that this country has ever experienced. So I have a hard time reconciling the two feelings.