I'm in the same boat (well, nearly - I ordered on the 15th October). Really was expecting to see some movement by now as US orders seem to be shipping earlier, but nothing as yet. Been hovering over the 'Cancel' button recently as realising my iPhone 5 is fine and getting bored of waiting!
Mines now preparing for despatch! Keep away from the cancel button lol! I was the same but you've waited this long