Well...I guess finally posting on this thread brought me some luck. Just received an shipment notification from Verizon. Unlike many others on here who have received theirs, mine has been shipped via 2-day and not overnight express delivery. Will still be here two days before the "promise" ship by date.
I have been following this thread for a number of days and thought I'd chime in with my situation.
I pre-ordered a white 64gb in store on 9/16 about 1:00pm and has had a "ship by" date of 10/5 since I ordered. My credit card was charged and the transaction has a post date of 9/27, but I have not received any other information such as a shipment confirmation or tracking number. Since they charged my card last week Thursday I would have expected something by now...hopefully by the end of today.
The tracking via this website:
https://preorder.verizonwireless.com/iconic/iconic/screens/IconicSearchInit.do
says "Your order has been sent to processing" but it has said that since I started checking it middle of last week.