Right,it's completely acceptable for people to be discussing why they did *not* upgrade and why something older might be better for them vs newer and defending that choice.
Forums should not be one way where all discussions are about what's new and those who don't update or have something older should just remain quiet.
Honestly, if anything, the defensive users I notice seem to be the ones that embrace anything Apple does as amazing and "the future", etc and they often are unable to handle even the most gently critical view of that approach they've taken
Both sides of that need to just make points, reiterate if need be, but not bash it endlessly, I agree.
I think 90% of debate and vitriol on this forum over new/old would completely evapourate and people would be 1 million times happier with their Apple devices of whatever make and model ….. if Apple had an option after a new OS or iOS so-called **UPGRADE** …… to press a simple clear button on your device that reads. "This 'Upgrade' is a 'Downgrade' Please revert me back to previous OS/iOS and all previous settings" ……. with a Feedback box where you can give your personal reasons.
….. if you don't use iCloud and have problems with TimeMachine regression …. this is the BUTTON everyone wants on ALL their software ….. and the only way people will move forward on these debates ….
If App developers + Apple were sued under the Trade Descriptions Act everytime they describing their latest 'bug-riddled abortion' as an "Upgrade" …..Where are they living?Fantasy Island?!

…… it would give Moderators on here a well-deserved holiday from a lot of the 'verbal aggro' on Forums ….that's for sure.
And Apple could save a fortune on Genius Staff and Call Centre/Support infrastructure needed to work 24/7 365 days to sort out the 'mess' everytime they want to make a 'progression' leap which some people like but 70 odd percent don't!
Likewise with Apps …… People want to decide for themselves when their old App is obsolete, …. especially ones they've paid for with hard earned cash! ….. this is not a decision App producers or Apple have the right to take ….. or make it their right in
unreasonable Terms and Conditions Legistlation.
Apple has 'trashed' so many of my old apps that used to work great …..and totally p'd off many many App Developers with their constant poorly execute chops and changes to a new OS/iOS.
Many App producers can't afford to make these continual expensive changes.
Do all this and 90% of the 'debate' MADNESS would stop on here, and elsewhere.
It's in Apple's hands to make these changes for the good of their reputation ….. and make their devices the 'tools of the professionals once again.
Wonder how much it costs Apple to 'medicate' and constantly replace their stressed out programmers after each OS/iOS release. Geeez …. don't these guys deserve to catch a 'break' during their pioneering ventures??
Yep - Really the issue is anonymity mixed with a lack of face to face interaction.
It does wild things to behavior... (not in a positive way)
A bit like when you join the Forces and pull on a uniform ….. it can make you 'faceless' ….. and gives you a licence to do all sorts of questionable things.

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