I know this a very old thread, but I wanted to put my two cents in?
I have a great square messenger bag I got online a little while ago, because I was tired of not having things while I was out, and carrying a wallet + extra pads + pills in a plastic grocery bag. It's masculine, sturdy and has lots of compartments and pockets. Love it.
My hubby and I go out almost every weekend, usually taking a lot of detours and sometimes even taking 4-5-6 hour drives to Virginia (or wherever) from New Jersey. I try to keep small amounts/versions of things I would need in all kinds of scenarios, though I don't think I could carry ammo for a zombie outbreak. There are so many times we've made a pit stop for BBQ and and wished I had wet wipes. or gotten my period early while I was out and wished I had something. or gone somewhere that requires a lot of digging around for stuff and chipped my nail and needed to clip it. or my glasses get smudgy and a tshirt just won't do it. And sometimes too, we go to friends houses for weekends. With my new bag, I won't forget anything I might need.
I don't wear makeup except for moisturizer or sunscreen, and chapstick, so I don't pile my bag full of that. and I'm a kind of a throw my hair up so its out of the way kind of gal, unless I need to protect it from wind, then it's braided and tucked into my hat. I have a smaller bag within my bag for some toiletries.
Here's a run through of everything.
First front zippered pocket: not a lot, since I don't want the front to be bulgy. Just a slim pouch of clorox wipes for worser public toilets, an eyemask, some sugar in the raw packets, and some reciepts.
Main front pocket (has card, pen slots, key fob, etc)
• Important cards: debit, ID, medical card, library card, emergency info card (contacts, insurance, etc - I like to have this in case of a car accident or something) a few business cards of favorite places we like to go.
• 3 pens, 1 decorative, 2 functional
• leather pocket notebook cover with insert notebook
• old trusty ipod nano and earbuds
• pack of gum
• retracting keychain with house & car keys
• coin purse (don't carry cash, but I like to keep change for tolls, in case hubby is out of spares)
• birth control
• portable charger
Main middle pocket
In makeup bag (I refill tiny travel bottles for this bag so I can stay moisturzed in winter, or whatever)
• small vibrator in stealthy bag, condoms, little bottle of lube (hubbys got a big van with a big back area, you never know! ;P)
• glasses wipes
• 3 refillable travel pouches for baby wipes, feminine wipes and face wipes
• Some good toilet paper in a ziploc
• a little ziploc of Tucks pads, because you don't know when those hot wings might come back to bite you
• a tube of chapstick or two
• tiny bottle of my favorite goats milk lotion, for my hands
• tiny bottle of sunscreen
• tiny bottle of toner
• winter salve, for my face in winter
• a travel container for one bar soap, because some places I've been don't have ANY SOAP. also my hands don't like liquid soap.
• tide to go stick
• couple hair ties
• travel sized hair brush
• hair clip
• small spray bottle of water
• travel lint roller
• nail file & clippers
• earplugs
• bandaids and ointment
• toothpicks
• compartmented pill box (Midol - periods, Pepcid - acid reflux, ibuprofen - general, some other pills)
• few hot/cold patches
• some cotton pads
• on overnight weekend trips, I stick a toothbrush and paste in here too.
• and funny enough, a tiny bottle of mild hot sauce. because I love me some tacos.
not in makeup bag, same pocket
• a granola bar or baggie of trail mix, whatever snack I'm fancying that day.
• small digital camera in hard case
• reading glasses case
• sunglasses with case (only in spring or summer)
• travel sized umbrella
Back first pocket:
• Ipad in case, ipad keyboard, mouse
• Kindle in case
• Chargers
Back second pocket:
• tiny wet bag for soiled stuff
• 2-3 cloth pads
• tampons
• back up pair of underwear
and finally the two side pockets
• small sized hunting knife (for self protection, but mostly so I can be awesome while cutting steak at a diner)
• don't have anything in the second side pocket yet
on my keychain is retractable pepper spray, and a little handmade keychain made from Australian wood. On the front of my bag I have a few pins, which includes a pinup mermaid
